Q: My partner and I are in a four-legged standoff. He wants a puppy because, “Puppies!” I don’t because we just decorated our wonderful Cobble Hill apartment. I can already see a puppy turning the wood legs of our coffee table into his favorite chew toy. And what about our poor sisal rug? My partner insists that people with dogs have nice furniture, and ours will survive if we train our puppy. I’m not so sure. Who’s right?

A: A puppy can certainly destroy a set of sofa cushions in minutes. But as your partner points out, people with nice furniture do have dogs. So how do they do it? By setting — and sticking to — rules about how and where their pet can roam until it’s old enough to be trustworthy.

Before bringing a puppy home, you and your partner need to agree on how you would protect your nice stuff. “It’s not just about training a puppy, it’s about getting everybody on board,” said Andrea Arden, a dog trainer in Manhattan.

If you don’t want pee stains on the sisal rug, don’t provide an opportunity to go there. Roll up the rug until the dog is sufficiently housebroken, or keep it off it at all times. The same goes for all the living room furniture — if the puppy doesn’t have access to the coffee table legs, it can’t chew them.